First of all, 10 months is a long time. Almost a year. Which means a lot can happen in that amount of time. What does he expect me to say? "Sure I'll just stop my life and wait until we can date." That's not how it works. At least that's not how I work.
Secondly, the kid just got Dear Johned. Thank you. That makes me feel like such a winner. Oh how I love being a rebound second choice.
Third, and probably most important, is that he is on a mission!!! The last thing he should be doing is lining up a girlfriend for when he gets home. He shouldn't be thinking about me, or any girls for that matter. Because right now he is on the Lord's time. Letters like that are a waste of that time and it genuinely saddens me. On level of importance in his life right now, I should be ranking very low.
The letter was nice enough. I mean I guess it could be considered flattering that someone so far away is still thinking of me, but really, it was a fling like 2 years ago. Get back to work.
Sorry. Vent sesh is now closed.
what a tool.
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